SEVEN STAGES OF WOMEN

Have you heard the famous poem written by William Shakespeare?

ALLTHE WORLD’S A STAGE…….. ..ARE PLAYERS….!

The real players are the women in this beautiful world. There is yet another famous saying ‘God created man and then thought of creating something better ‘.The better idea was of the creation of women. The stage at which the Indian women evolves and strengthen her is incredible. Women, be it any women not only in India but anywhere in the world, the elements of fervor, veracity, motherliness, empathy are at high stocks in them. A heart of fluffy cushion of love makes her the Diva of ecstasy and warmth.

The pre –phase of an Indian women starts with lots and lots of confusion and predictions. The urge of getting a girl-child is considered as producing something that is no worth or importance. After facing a lot of gender test, trepidation, revulsion, criticism and durability is often on a high stake of risk. Through all these performed allegations and so called process an infant is born. This infant survives if the society accepts her and then the other systematic function occurs.

The lovely relation of a daughter –father, mother-daughter is extremely a feeling that goes unshared and accomplished. Beautiful pink costumes, matching sandals and clips are previewed at early stages. This early stage starts her journey of patience and discrimination.

The next stage starts when the infant evolves further into a child. The first uttered words and tongue twistings, the funny moments, faces, laughter attracts attention. The further excitement comes when she goes to school. In India, the state of girl-child education has increased; several Yojnas’ are implemented to improve education. Sarva shiksha abhiyan, Nari vikas yojna are at high toll.

The next very happening stage gradually appears before one. This adolescence stage is the stage where various changes are seen. Growing beautifully and becoming aware of her. Friends play a very important role. But in India, the opposite happens all the time. She gets burdened with families traditions, culture and moreover to keep the rituals of the family in order to survive being an inferior creature. There she does not get enough freedom to come up with her own ideas rather than to put up the family pressures. There she gets cursed, blamed and even not sent to colleges for further studies. Some are even married at an early age to keep up the traditions of the society.

The fourth stage arrives where she is seen as multi-tasking women. She performs each and every duty. She gets addressed as a wife, a caretaker, an informer, adviser, financer and all works that she does efficiently. She is responsible for every task whether at home or anywhere. She gets warm feeling when she enjoys being a mother. She nourishes the child inbuilt culture, disciplines his / her. She shapes the future of her children. The utterance of “maa” word itself is a blessing to her. She considers herself superior and feels honored. The pressure faced by Indian women is worthy. They are considered witch if they are unable to bear child. Moreover, the domestic violence, infertility problems are due to the facts of them being suppressed by male dominance.

This fifth stage entangles both joy and sadness. At this phase of time her children grow up and she feels free from her duties. She then after enjoys being called as “sasu maa”. Her children married yet another very responsible stage arrives. Indian women have the courage to face extremities and odd ends.

The final sixth and seven stage is all set to enjoy with their grand children and play with them tell up stories of Rediscovering the youth in her obviously. Children have gone their way & grandchildren are finding theirs. Suddenly, grey hair disappears. No, No not from the scalp they only change colour! They turn black! Smiles look better than they were all along (let me share the secret, Artificial dentures makes all the difference!) A phase when time is available aplenty but physically she can’t cope up with all she wants to do. STILL she tries and determined that she is, manages to do most of what she wants.